Warmth, Fun and Disneyland

Warmth, Fun and Disneyland

I had the good luck to spend a day at Disneyland last week. But even better luck – my buddy for the day was my touch-and-hug-positive friend – Susan! This means that if I had an impulse for physical connection, I felt comfortable asking for it. It was so...
The Wisdom of Trauma

The Wisdom of Trauma

A few weeks ago, I went to a touch positive event and had such a great time. It was pleasure to alternate between conversation and introverted people watching. Mixed in with the social enjoyment, I also had an experience with a participant that pushed my boundaries....
Attunement

Attunement

I’d like to share a really personal story. One time, a boyfriend and I were fooling around and working towards having sex. The penetrative kind. Typically we were a cooperative couple and the sex we had reflected that. But this time was different. All at once, before...