3 Ways to Get Better at Saying “No”

3 Ways to Get Better at Saying “No”

Hi, I’m Fei, and I’m a recovering Yes-a-holic. For most of my life, “No” has been a dirty word. I’ve always been a people pleaser. Not only did I grow up in a collectivist culture, there’s something about playing a part in another person’s happiness that helps me feel...
What is “Oxytocin Drop”?

What is “Oxytocin Drop”?

It happened enough times that I came to expect it. I would attend a cuddle event and get very blissed out. Then at some point the next day, I’d feel sad. When this happened to me, it sucked, but I didn’t question it. As Cuddle Sanctuary has grown and the...
Cuddling is My Meditation Practice

Cuddling is My Meditation Practice

Lately I’ve been noticing just how much of my life is built around striving. There’s always some stronger, healthier, richer, wiser, version of myself I’m hoping to become. This dictates how I’m supposed to spend my time. There’s this big...
4 Secret Ingredients of a Super Yummy Cuddle

4 Secret Ingredients of a Super Yummy Cuddle

Have you ever experienced an ahh-mazing cuddle? I certainly have! My favorite cuddles are ones where we both are in sync and I feel like I can completely let go and be myself. Tate and I have both been lucky to create lots of fun, amazing, powerful cuddles, both in...
The Language of Touch

The Language of Touch

I never used to give touch much thought. Especially in my twenties, touch was something that happened incidentally – in romantic relationships, when dancing, during sex etc. I knew I needed closeness and intimacy, I just missed connecting it to touch somehow....