Cuddle Therapy Services in the United States and Abroad
Below you’ll find certified professional cuddlers in California, Georgia, Florida, Hawaii, Illinois, Maryland, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Virginia and Washington DC. You can also find us in Mexico, Belgium, India and Tanzania.
Each of the cuddlers below set their own rates. You can contact them directly and request more details.
Are you stressed and just want to feel peaceful. Or are you feeling lonely and long for more closeness.
We totally understand how life gets. Especially these days. Whether you’re looking for support in your personal growth journey or to fill up on your touch needs, we’ve got a soft place for you to land. If the pandemic has taught us nothing else, we need each other more than ever. Come melt into a warm embrace, and allow yourself to be cared for. Be truly accepted just as your are – tears, laughter – all of it. Hold on tightly, or allow us to hold you. We’ve got you.
What to Expect?
Professional cuddling sessions are a Rated G experience that will soothe your spirit and quiet your mind. Sessions can include hugging, spooning, holding hands, compassionate conversation, or blissful quiet.
We take a lot of care to craft each session so it’s just right for you. You get to decide just how much touch (if any) you want in a session. We can guide you through the entire experience and provide you with lots of relaxing, nurturing options. Or if you already know what you’d like to experience, we can design the session as a team.
Professional cuddlers are amazing human beings who bring warmth and caring to every session. The practitioners on this site have passed the rigorous standards of our certification program. They bring their training, integrity, professionalism and clear communication skills to every session. You can read our Code of Ethics here. You’re in terrific hands!
How to Get Started
We recommended a 60-minute session for your very first time. Each cuddler sets their own rates. With the pandemic coming to a close, we ask that you communicate honestly with your cuddler if you have health concerns or needs.
For folks new to the service, you can expect a getting-to-know-you process. First you sign an agreement about the services. Then you’ll have a short phone or video call with your professional cuddler. In this call your professional cuddler can learn more about you and you can ask any questions you have. If you’re both feeling comfortable setting up a session, your cuddle therapist may request a form of ID from you along with your payment.
If you’d like to BE a professional cuddler, click here. If you’d like to learn more about receiving these services, keep scrolling down.
One question we often get is, “What if I get aroused?” Arousal is a natural response and nothing to be ashamed of. We just recommend that you shift positions and move your attention to bring the experience back to platonic. Here are more tips. It’s all good.
Got questions? Visit our FAQ. Or email support@cuddlesanctuary.com.
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Choose your Professional Cuddler below:
Southern California
Long Beach, California
Meet CJ DeTreaux
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
Meet Afsaneh
Have you ever thought that we experience our sense of touch, in contrast to our other senses, through our whole body? When Afsaneh became aware of that, she started to pay attention to her skin differently both physically and spiritually. She is thrilled that she came across Cuddle Sanctuary during the pandemic and learned more in a virtual setting. Afsaneh is Middle Eastern, lived in Europe for a decade and came to US in 2000. Being a two times immigrant, her preference is to work with immigrant women. She holds a safe space for all who would like to connect with her.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Virtual Only
Availability: Second and fourth Saturday and Sunday of each month (except long weekends)
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Los Angeles, California
Meet Adrian
Adrian creates a safe space for you. He embodies a kind, warm-hearted spirit that is gentle, playful, and highly attuned. Trained in yoga and massage therapy, Adrian brings his broad experience into every session, cuddling your mind, body, and spirit. It begins before you ever meet, as you discuss your wants and needs together. If you’re not sure what those needs are, he will help you figure them out together, all at your pace. Above all, Adrian wants to help you feel safe, less alone in the world, and worthy of love and connection. Crying, laughter, and silence are all welcome (and so are pancakes!). Take a chance and connect with Adrian, so you can better connect with yourself.
Pronouns: He/Him
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Availability: Monday – Sunday (out-calls only)
Services: In-Person
Los Angeles – El Segundo, California
Meet Stephen
Ready for 60 minutes of “you” time? Quality attention is Stephen’s best gift. Give yourself permission to ask for exactly what you want. Stephen finds joy in caring for you and honoring your boundaries. He has received certifications with Cuddle Sanctuary and Cuddlist and is also a certified cuddle event leader. Stephen’s interests include aerospace engineering, life coaching, natural sciences, interpersonal relationships and of course – cuddling! Stephen has Asperger’s and welcomes neurodiverse and neurotypical clients.
Pronouns: He/Him
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Availability: Sunday – Saturday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Los Angeles – North Hollywood, California
Meet Keeley
Keeley has been a professional cuddler since 2015. She often remarks on how lucky she feels to have found her life’s purpose; bringing unconditional love and validation through platonic touch to anyone who needs it. Keeley’s practitioner style centers around empowering her clients to find their voice and celebrating their desires without shame or reservation. She infuses every session with a sense of play and curiosity. If you are looking for a place to completely relax, let go, soak in some love, and explore how blissfully healing touch can be, you’ve found it. You can find out more at keeleyshoup.com or her wildly popular channel on TikTok.
Pronouns: She/They
Location: North Hollywood, CA and Chicago, IL
Availability: Monday – Friday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Los Angeles & Palm Springs, California
Meet Trevor
Trevor James is an event producer and director and lifestyle maven turned Certified Touch and Cuddle Therapist. He has a natural disposition for putting people at ease, and his gentle, even-keeled manner has a calming effect on people. In a session with Trevor, you will be treating yourself to total relaxation, nurturing, and connection with a present soul who holds space for you to just be — with no expectations and no judgments. Trevor’s practice is tailored for men of all sexual orientations and identities. His mission is to ensure men’s wellness through touch, connection, companionship and community. He also runs the Cuddle Buddies LA Meetup group that meets for group cuddle sessions. Trevor looks forward to meeting and embracing you!
Pronouns: He/Him
Location: Los Angeles & Palm Springs
Availability: Sunday – Saturday
Services: In-Person
Los Angeles – Santa Monica, California
Meet CJ
CJ is a cuddle professional whose work as a coach has informed her ability to be present, calming and aware. Her sessions might include practicing negotiations, discovering what your needs are and experimenting with asking for what you want. Her cuddling sessions can be informative and also restorative and calming. She also facilitates group cuddle events.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Santa Monica (no outcalls)
Availability: Weekdays and weekend days
Services: In-Person
Meet Cuddle Queen Jean
If you’ve never had a professional cuddling session, let Jean be your guide. Jean is a wonderful listener and appreciates you just the way you are. Perhaps it’s been too long since you’ve received a good hug. Or maybe you need a safe place to grieve or recover. Or it could be you’re longing for kind, feminine energy. In either case, Jean welcomes you. You can experience lots of acceptance, compassion and cuddles in Jean’s LGBTQ-friendly, trauma-informed practice. Jean is the Founder of Cuddle Sanctuary and has been cuddling since 2013. She’s been featured internationally in the media including BuzzFeed, Rolling Stone, and Good Mythical Morning. You can find her on YouTube, IG and FB and her website.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Santa Monica (no outcalls)
Availability: Sunday – Monday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Old Town Orange, California
Meet Grace
Grace is compassionate, empathetic and an ideal cuddler for those experiencing loneliness, disconnection, or the need for human touch. A session might include practices such as meditative time, self-soothing, and laughter. Yes, you can cry if you need to! Grace has a myriad of tools to connect with you and help you connect with yourself. As a coach and cuddler, she has years of experience working with individuals, and is especially in tune with those healing from emotional trauma and grief. Your comfort and safety is her top priority. Grace is here for you and will be with you and your big emotions. She has been cuddling professionally since 2018, and is also a Certified Cuddle Event Leader.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Old Town Orange, CA (Sorry, no out-calls)
Availability: Wednesday – Sunday (Grace is vaccinated and can meet indoors with vaccinated clients. Outdoor options are also available.)
Services: In-Person and Virtual
San Diego, California
Meet Andi
Andi was drawn to professional cuddling after working as a nursing assistant and seeing how profoundly human touch and connection impacted people’s well-being. Andi’s education includes certification through Cuddle Sanctuary, and training through Cuddlist and Cuddle Professionals International. Their calm and nurturing demeanor will bring you to a space of relaxation and comfort through ethical platonic touch. They love working with people of all backgrounds but are especially passionate about working with those who are neurodiverse and/or in the LGBTQ+ community.
Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
Location: San Diego, CA
Availability: Monday/Wednesday/Friday
Northern California
Sacramento, California
Meet Maria
Maria loves humans from all walks of life. She allows her intuition to guide her as she creates a space of safe boundaries and a healing presence. Listening is one of the skills that she incorporates in the session in order to facilitate a pleasant experience. Maria has over 15 years experience as a certified massage therapist, holds certificates in shamanism and yoga among other disciplines. She loves cuddling her stuffed animal, Cuddles, and looks forward to meeting you!
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Sacramento, California
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
Georgia
Atlanta (Metro), Georgia
Meet Candy
Candy Marie is a holistic wellness practitioner who believes that human touch and intentional energetic exchange can foster genuine human connection in a way unlike any other. In addition to being a certified cuddle therapist, she is a licensed massage therapist, certified yoga instructor, mindfulness coach, reiki practitioner and performing artist. A session may include anything from meditation, massage, or guided stretching to dancing, singing karaoke or spooning while watching your favorite movie. Each session is customized to meet your individual needs. Feeling lonely or depressed? Anxious or overwhelmed? Candy genuinely understands, cares, and would love to hold you through it all. First timers welcome! 🙂
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Decatur, Georgia
Availability: Sunday, Monday, Wednesday or Thursday
Services: In-Person
Meet Tonya
Tonya O’Bryan is a kind-spirited and compassionate woman that has been creating brave healing spaces for over 20 years. She is a consent and boundary advocate and has been a cuddle enthusiast since 2012. Tonya has years of experience working with individuals and facilitating groups, and is especially in tune with those healing from sexual trauma and grief. Pleasure-focused, Tonya’s practice centers the needs of Black, Indigenous and People of Color (BIPOC) and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. She is a healing justice and trauma-informed Pleasure Strategist and Life & Relationship Coach, who organizes come as you are cuddling spaces that promote connection, nurturing, and relaxation, holding space for you to choose pleasure, live in the moment, and be your authentic self.
Pronouns: Queen/She/Hers
Location: Atlanta metro area or your location
Availability: Sunday – Saturday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Florida
Jacksonville, Florida
Meet Janine
Janine is open-minded, empathetic, and attentive. She is ideal if you need to minimize the stress in your life, nurture yourself or an idea, or just a gentle human touch. In 2023, Janine was certified as a Professional Cuddler. During a virtual session, Janine offers a “verbal massage” or platonic play time. Janine is a certified Laughter Yoga instructor and understands the value of naturally releasing “feel good hormones.” During an in-person session, you can expect a safe judgement-free space, with or without touch, to share your thoughts, release stress, or receive nurturing touch. Janine endeavors to provide an environment for everyone to increase their own loving vibration, learn more at Heart2MindTouch.com.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Ocala, Florida
Meet Kiley
Kiley is warm, sensitive and compassionate. She has experience dealing with grief, trauma and special needs. She is the professional for those needing human touch in a tranquil soothing atmosphere. She is a certified professional cuddler and will provide you with an optimal experience. Your safety and comfort are her top priorities. She is equipped with many tools to enhance and guide your session. Come join her and explore the many ways of touch therapy!
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Ocala, Florida
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
Sunrise, Florida
Meet Jay
Those that know Jay would describe him as an open-minded, caring, grounding, and non-judgmental individual. He was trained and certified with Cuddle Sanctuary and continues to develop and grow along with his practice. Cuddling and intimate platonic touch have always been one of his passions and he is more than happy to share that with anyone in need. Jay firmly believes that the world would be a much better place with more platonic and caring touch and wants to work towards shattering the stigma that touch can only be sexual or romantic in nature. During a session with Jay you can expect a safe, relaxing, calm space where you can simply be as you are and feel seen and appreciated.
Pronouns: He/Him
Location: Sunrise, Florida
Availability: Everyday except Tuesday and Saturday
Services: In-Person
Illinois
Chicago, Illinois
Meet Keeley
Keeley has been a professional cuddler since 2015. She often remarks on how lucky she feels to have found her life’s purpose; bringing unconditional love and validation through platonic touch to anyone who needs it. Keeley’s practitioner style centers around empowering her clients to find their voice and celebrating their desires without shame or reservation. She infuses every session with a sense of play and curiosity. If you are looking for a place to completely relax, let go, soak in some love, and explore how blissfully healing touch can be, you’ve found it. You can find out more at keeleyshoup.com or her wildly popular channel on TikTok.
Pronouns: She/They
Location: Burbank, CA and Chicago, IL
Availability: Monday – Friday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Maryland
Crofton, Maryland
Meet Hala Nuru
Nuru is caring, nurturing and compassionate. She’s honored to create safe, platonic spaces for those who may be experiencing disconnection, loneliness, or the need for human touch. Nuru is a certified Reiki Master, Tantric, Sound, and Touch Healer. She has more than five years’ experience as a Self-Care and Tantric Coach working with individuals and couples. Nuru’s sessions are tailored to the needs of her clients. Your session may include visual meditation, breathwork, sound healing therapy, great cuddles, touch therapy, watching a movie or a myriad of other modalities. Nuru encourages her clients to come to their sessions prepared to receive: “Your session is ALL about you.” She has an LGBTQ+ friendly practice and is vaccinated.
Pronouns: She/her
Location: Crofton, Maryland
Availability: Tuesday – Saturday
Services: In-Person
Oregon
Portland, Oregon
Meet Cheri
Did you know that YOU are inherently LOVABLE, just the way you are? And that YOUR unique presence absolutely MATTERS? That YOU matter? It’s TRUE and Cheri would be delighted to remind you! Cheri is the founder of The Touch Tonic and is certified by both Cuddlist and Cuddle Sanctuary. Cheri is an open-minded, big-hearted cheerleader for/celebrator of ALL shapes, sizes, ages, gender identities, orientations, and walks of life. Whether you could use some emotional support around a particular challenge or would really benefit from some loving touch, Cheri has accumulated a lifetime of tools to meet you wherever you’re at and is eager to help. She is certified in Mental Health First Aid, trauma-informed, and has also taught peer counseling (RC). In addition, Cheri runs The Touch Tonic Meetup group and offers in-person group cuddle events, too! Cheri welcomes all inquiries and looks forward to accompanying you on your journey back to the fullest, most joyful YOU!
Pronouns: She/her
Location: Portland, OR (Office is on SE Belmont; Out-calls possible for established clients)
Availability: Monday – Saturday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Pennsylvania
King of Prussia, Pennsylvania
Meet Johnny
When Johnny is feeling low and struggling, holding another person or being held helps. When lonely, it helps. When stressed, it helps. When content and enjoying good weather, life seems a little brighter and more meaningful. Science confirms people who cuddle or hug freely have a tendency to be happier, healthier, and less stressed. The calming way of platonic cuddling is a no-brainer, he believes. Whether as a touchless companion or a close cuddler, he wants to be a supportive presence you may need at vital times in your life. He listens when it seems others want to tell. He cares when it seems others don’t notice. He’s curious when it seems others are bored. He genuinely wants to know you and provide a safe social environment for you to exist devoid of judgment. Johnny hopes you’ll reach out to get a little Touch of Comfort in your life.
Pronouns: He/Him
Location: King of Prussia, Pennsylvania
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
Lewisberry, Pennsylvania
Meet Mela
Mela is very passionate about the way she shows up in the world and how she shows up for her fellow human beings. She is non-judgmental and unconditionally loving. Mela accepts everyone and adores them for who they are. She excels at putting people at ease, being genuine and present, and making others feel seen and appreciated. And Mela’s incredibly warm and snuggly! Her favorite ways to cuddle up are Gummy Bear, Tetris, and especially Lap of Luxury, gently comforting and caressing you. (Definitely ask her about these positions!) Mela is a nurturer and is dedicated to the art of truly connecting with her fellow human beings.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Lewisberry, Pennsylvania
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
State College, Pennsylvania
Meet Susan
Susan Lee is a natural when it comes to cuddling and creating a safe space for connection and nurturing. She has been a cuddle enthusiast since 2016, a Life Coach since 2002 and has lead cuddle events in several cities. As a Professional Cuddler she embodies the word presence and offers you the experience of being welcomed and accepted just as you are. In a session with Susan, you will receive nurturing, intuitive guidance, and the freedom to relax and luxuriate in self-care. Come treat yourself and explore some of Susan’s favorite cuddle positions including “Gummy Bear” and the “Koala”.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: State College, Pennsylvania
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person
Washington DC
DC Metropolitan
Meet De’Lasha
De’Lasha’s open-mindedness is liberating. She is body positive and embraces all identities. De’Lasha understands that the System has deprived humanity of many needs including touch. She has worked as a cuddle provider since 2017 and has over 25 clients. She has worked in Massachusetts and Austin, Texas and now calls the Washington Metro area home. De’Lasha is committed to sharing her maternal energy to create safe and comfortable cuddle sessions. In her personal life, she loves water activities, yoga, stones, spirituality and well-being. A final detail is that De’Lasha is Deaf. Her first language is American Sign Language. In a session together, you can communicate in many ways – including ASL.
Pronouns: She/They
Location: DC Metropolitan
Availability: Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
Services: In-Person
Meet Jasmine
Jasmine Siemon is the founder of Tangé Wellness. She is a Platonic Touch Practitioner, Human Connection Facilitator and Neuro-Linguistic Programming Coach committed to helping adults who suffer from loneliness, depression, anxiety and sadness, feel loving acceptance through trusted, applied touch and human connection. It is with compassion, empathy, authenticity and holding a safe, non-judgmental space that clients can access and share radical honesty without fear of repercussions. Jasmine’s certifications include Cuddle Sanctuary, Cuddlist, Mental Health First Aid, Applied Suicide Intervention Skills, Advanced Training for Trauma Treatment of C-PTSD, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, and ASL. With over 1,400 session hours and practicing since 2016, Jasmine has found her calling.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: DC Metropolitan
Availability: Monday – Saturday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Mexico
Puebla, Mexico
Meet Shawn
With nearly a decade of experience in this field, Shawn Coleman is a brilliant and compassionate connection expert. In Connection Sessions, they listen intently and ask questions that demonstrate genuine interest, guiding you to connect with others meaningfully. During their Boundary Sessions, Shawn models their own excellent boundaries, helps you to identify yours, and assists you in creating a plan for implementing them in your daily life. Clients leave sessions feeling held, inspired, and empowered.
Pronouns: Shawn/Shawn’s/They/ Them
Location: Puebla, Mexico
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Africa
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania (East Africa)
Meet Rita
Would you like to connect with someone in a simple and sincere way, without complications? Rita is a loving, warm-hearted soul with a multicultural background. Her life path, across continents, cultures, friendships, and world experiences, has made her a solid, nonjudgmental, beautiful spirit. Rita takes a balanced and forgiving view of the world and the people within it. She organically creates a safe space in which you can nurture your soul, find the joy that you seek, and experience the human touch that can make you whole. Rita is the first Cuddle Sanctuary Certified Cuddler in East and West Africa. If you are in Tanzania and need human connection, she welcomes you to request an in-person session.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Dar es Salaam, Tanzania (Travel within East Africa possible)
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Asia
Hyderabad and Mumbai, India
Meet Simran
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Hyderabad and Mumbai, India
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Europe
Brussels, Belgium
Meet Madline
Madline is a cuddle therapist, certified with both Nordic Cuddle London and Cuddle Sanctuary. She offers both in-person and virtual sessions. Madline is thrilled to have found her calling in bringing comfort to people, and helping them feel loved, seen, understood and genuinely respected. She believes touch has the power to change our lives and to change the world. Madline’s consent-centered approach empowers people to get to know and express their boundaries. She creates a relaxing, quiet atmosphere, infused with kindness, care and empathy. Madline is the ideal cuddler for those experiencing loneliness, depression, and anxiety, and is always happy to adapt to specific needs and disabilities. She speaks both French and English. You can see her on video here.
Pronouns: She/Her
Location: Brussels, Belgium
Availability: Monday – Sunday
Services: In-Person and Virtual
Terms and Conditions
This listing of professional cuddlers is provided as a service to the public, and lists individuals who are certified with Cuddle Sanctuary. Cuddle Sanctuary does not monitor their work during or after certification, nor require continuing education to maintain certification. Certification does not imply legal endorsement by Cuddle Sanctuary of the practitioner.
Cuddle Sanctuary does not offer psychotherapy. The practitioners listed here are not physicians, psychiatrists, psychologists, licensed social workers, or licensed marriage and family therapists, and do not offer psychotherapy or medical advice.
All of the individuals listed here are responsible for adhering to the laws of their state with regard to the practice of psychotherapy, medicine, counseling, social work, bodywork, or other regulated profession, including education, licensing, and use of titles.
Jean Franzblau, LLC DBA Cuddle Sanctuary does not warrant or otherwise assume responsibility for the services provided by these practitioners, or his/her/their competency to provide such services; and may not be held liable for any claim resulting from the use of this listing, or for the activities of any individuals who are trained or certified by Cuddle Sanctuary or students or graduates in our trainings. While representatives of Cuddle Sanctuary may make a recommendation of a practitioner, the individual using this listing assumes sole responsibility for determining whether a practitioner is appropriate for their needs.