by Jean Franzblau | Aug 18, 2018 | Consent, Etiquette
I made a mistake. A few years ago, I led a Cuddle Sanctuary event where one of the guys was a newbie, and I found him attractive. The day after the event, I expressed my interest in him and he said very simply, “No thank you.” I responded as I’ve been trained to...
by Fei Wyatt | Aug 9, 2018 | Cuddling, Etiquette, How To, Professional Cuddling
I’ve always loved a good conversation. It’s such a rewarding feeling to connect verbally, exchange ideas and get to know another’s inner world. To see and be seen, hear and be heard. I’ll freely admit, it’s what excited me most about professional cuddling in the first...
by Fei Wyatt | Jul 3, 2018 | Cuddling, Etiquette, How To, Professional Cuddling, Training
Have you ever felt disappointed after a massage, a haircut, or a professional cuddle? Does getting good service feel like rolling the dice to you? You’re not alone. I’ve been there! My first few introductions to massage had been s painful, it led me to...
by Fei Wyatt | Apr 21, 2018 | Cuddle Workshops, Etiquette, How To
If you’ve attended a cuddle event before – or even if you haven’t – you probably know the feelings of nervousness or awkwardness a first-time attendee may experience. We’ve all been newbies once! While it’s most likely that...
by Fei Wyatt | Mar 24, 2018 | Cuddling, Etiquette, Professional Cuddling, Stories from Sessions
When Adam* came in for his first session, he made a beeline for the lone chair in the far corner of the living room. I don’t usually hold sessions in my living room. Or in chairs. But I was prepared. “The only touch I’d ever gotten as a child was abusive,” he’d...
by Fei Wyatt | Feb 22, 2018 | Consent, Cuddle Workshops, Cuddling, Etiquette, Professional Cuddling
The first time I encountered a “picky” cuddler, I judged. We were at a cuddle, and I had offered this attendee a back rub. She delightfully accepted, and then proceeded to tell me a list of things she liked and didn’t like. “I like medium pressure. No nails. Go slow....
