by Fei Wyatt | Nov 30, 2018 | Cuddling, Professional Cuddling
When I was just beginning my career as a professional cuddler, I spent a lot of time imagining what the job would look like. Here’s what I saw in my mind’s eye: I would hold people close. We would have deep, meaningful conversations. They would open up to me, and I...
by Fei Wyatt | Nov 15, 2018 | Cuddling, How To, Professional Cuddling
Do you get lonely? I do. It’s my least favorite emotion to experience. Wait a minute, you say. How do you get lonely, Fei? You’re married, and you cuddle people all day long! You’re right. In general, I do have a lot of connection in my life. More than most, perhaps....
by Fei Wyatt | Aug 9, 2018 | Cuddling, Etiquette, How To, Professional Cuddling
I’ve always loved a good conversation. It’s such a rewarding feeling to connect verbally, exchange ideas and get to know another’s inner world. To see and be seen, hear and be heard. I’ll freely admit, it’s what excited me most about professional cuddling in the first...
by Fei Wyatt | Jul 26, 2018 | Cuddling, Professional Cuddling
I’ve spent most of my life trying to be a grown-up. As a kid, that was my ticket to freedom. I couldn’t wait to grow up! As an adult, that was my doorway to legitimacy. One day, I would act like grown ups should, and then I would belong. Here’s what I thought being...
by Fei Wyatt | Jul 3, 2018 | Cuddling, Etiquette, How To, Professional Cuddling, Training
Have you ever felt disappointed after a massage, a haircut, or a professional cuddle? Does getting good service feel like rolling the dice to you? You’re not alone. I’ve been there! My first few introductions to massage had been s painful, it led me to...
by Fei Wyatt | Jun 14, 2018 | Cuddling, Professional Cuddling, Stories from Sessions
Last week, I wrote about the validity of the intimacy we encounter in environments like cuddle events, or with a professional cuddler. In that article, I tiptoed around using the word love; I avoided it for the most part. But I also used it anyway. I’ve been thinking...