The Cuddle Sanctuary Social
Join us in West Los Angeles for our Winter Solstice Social on December 21st or for New Year’s Eve! Our first event of the New Year is January 18th or try our Post-Valentine’s Day Social on February 15th. Our events are specially designed to welcome newcomers.
Do you like hugs? Looking to relax and unwind? Join us at our flagship Cuddle Sanctuary Socials. You’ll be surrounded by warm and welcoming human beings, and it’s the perfect environment for self-exploration, connection, and fun.
What to Expect
The Cuddle Sanctuary Social is a workshop and social experience that invites people to be their authentic selves. Newcomers are amazed at how relaxed and safe they feel, given that boundaries are not just respected, but celebrated. By the end of this event, people comment that they feel blissed out, content, deeply relaxed, and connected.
Health Guidelines
Please skip this event if you’re feeling “off” or may be contagious. You can cancel and get a refund or credit for a future event. Thanks in advance for taking care of our community!
How Does It Work?
The event begins with a welcome circle, easy relaxation activities, communication exercises and a description of cuddle etiquette. It culminates in a voluntary “cuddle lab”. Touch is always consensual, and never a requirement to participate. At this workshop, you may experience an increased sense of well-being and belonging, a boost in compassion and playfulness, a decrease in blood pressure and a better night’s sleep. The event provides opportunities to meet new friends, connect with partners and pals in a soulful new way and be part of a warm, safe and huggable tribe. And you can leave at any time for any reason if it’s not your cup of tea.
What Do I Wear?
Dress in clothes that are comfortable for snuggling. Think soft, cozy pajamas, cotton t shirts, sweatpants, leggings. Tank tops and shorts are ok for warmer weather (and that is the minimum clothing requirement). Feel free to change clothes in the restroom when you arrive. Hygiene is important at cuddles – please be squeaky clean and minty fresh! It’s easier to get close that way. Also, please come free of perfumes, body wash, colognes and cigarette smoke. Some of us have sensitive noses. Thanks!
What Are the Guidelines?
These guidelines are like the “etiquette of cuddling.” We’ll go over them and answer any questions you may have during the workshop.
-There’s no touch required, and you can change your mind at any time.
-Arrive and stay sober throughout the event
-Respect your boundaries and the boundaries of others, ideally with enthusiasm.
-Keep any touch Rated G and use the Ask and Wait Method: If you want to touch someone, ask. Then wait for their answer!
-Respect the confidentiality of others attendees
What Are Some Myths and Truths About Cuddle Events?
Check out this video to get some honest answers about cuddle events.
Curious About Cuddle Poses?
You can learn lots of cuddle poses are our events. If you’re somebody who likes to study up ahead of time, check out our class: Professional Cuddler Demos.
Testimonials
“It was hard for me to wrap my head around what a “cuddle” was and why it would “change my life” but that’s exactly what happened. As a single mom and full time caregiver for my disabled child, I had truly stopped taking care of me. Coming to these cuddle nights was the best advice I ever took!”
“This place is an amazing, safe, nurturing container for platonic touch and cuddling…It is a very well run program based on respect, consent and connection. Everyone was warm and friendly and I was completely welcome and comfortable. I’m counting the days to my next workshop.”
To bring Cuddle Sanctuary to your organization or university, click here. Here’s a list of our certified event leaders. To see a calendar of cuddle events around Los Angeles, click here.