I’m in Florida right now because my dad is dying. I’m sitting in the bedroom across from his. A loud oxygen machine whirs incessantly to confirm that my father – for now – is still here. My brother is in there sharing (loud) stories and memories of my dad. I’ve taken a needed break from the sad room.

I’ve always known that this time in my life would be a rite of passage. I had no idea that being a “cuddle friendly” family member would help me through it. Having the habit of closeness in my day-to-day life is making me a go-to person for giving and receiving comfort:

I hug my mom in the kitchen.

My niece discovers that she likes to be the “baby bear” while I play with her shampoo-fresh, long hair.

I caress my father’s hair and face as his breath becomes ever more shallow…

I’d be happy to hear your words of comfort during this profound moment in my life. In the meanwhile, my oxytocin levels are at a premium.

 

PS: I’m the little one in the photo with the bangs.

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