Platonic + Sober + No Phones

Platonic + Sober + No Phones

Burdened by way too much adulting, I recently made a sacred promise to myself: Every year, I shall take myself to summer camp. But where? A quick search for “adult summer camp” yielded few results that felt quite right. Then, I saw it: JOY CAMP. Their...
What’s Changing at Cuddle Sanctuary

What’s Changing at Cuddle Sanctuary

Two months ago, I shared that I was pausing my monthly practice of leading cuddle events. That decision still feels clear and grounded. I even donated my floor cushions to the Boys and Girls Club of Santa Monica. I like the idea of them circulating in the world and...
A Change In Rhythm

A Change In Rhythm

Note: Since first publishing this post, I’ve gained more clarity about what this transition means. I’m stepping away from monthly event production while remaining active through private sessions, resources, select mentorship, and aligned special collaborations. For...
Humble Pie

Humble Pie

I woke up last night with jabbing self-criticism and a deep sense of shame. It was related to an event I hosted yesterday. Cuddle Sanctuary’s monthly alumni calls invite former students to talk shop and support each other. I often offer ideas, experience, tips...
I Was Called Out.

I Was Called Out.

Note for Black readers and other people of color: I share the story below for my mostly white audience. Feel free to read and contact me with any comments. A Black student sent me a long email. She had a lot to say. The first time I read it, I skimmed it because it...
An Initiation

An Initiation

In December, I got a book from the library. The Climate Book was put together by Greta Thunberg. (She’s the Swedish activist who started the global movement to demand action for climate change.)  I was surprised: My library had tons of copies. The book is filled with...