by Jean Franzblau | May 11, 2019 | Checking In, Consent
Did you open this blog because of the lure of the title? The seductive promise that the writer knows the truth about you? That deep down, even though you recycle plastic or give spare change to the homeless or say hello to strangers – that deep down, you’re kind...
by Jean Franzblau | Apr 11, 2019 | Checking In, Cuddling
I’m in Florida right now because my dad is dying. I’m sitting in the bedroom across from his. A loud oxygen machine whirs incessantly to confirm that my father – for now – is still here. My brother is in there sharing (loud) stories and memories of my dad....
by Jean Franzblau | Mar 16, 2019 | Checking In, Consent, Cuddle Workshops, How To
Last month I attended a cuddle event as a guest. The facilitator – Gabriella – created a deeply meditative vibe with quiet music and this guideline: “You’re welcome to make yummy sounds of enjoyment.” [We laughed.] “You can talk to make physical...
by Jean Franzblau | Mar 2, 2019 | Checking In, Consent, Cuddler's Digest, Cuddling
One time at Cuddle Sanctuary, I fell into conversation with a newcomer – we’ll call him Bobby. Bobby noticed that though he was comfortable hugging family members and romantic partners, he was totally uncomfortable touching people at our event – people he...
by Jean Franzblau | Dec 31, 2018 | Checking In, How To
Years ago, I worked with an executive coach who shared with me a terrific New Year’s ritual called “Complete and Create.” It’s an easy and satisfying way to say good-bye to the old year and how-do-you-do to the new one. On a piece of paper,...
by Jean Franzblau | Dec 20, 2018 | Checking In, How To
‘Tis the season for many of us to spend time with relatives. That could mean laughter, fun, caroling, tinsel, gifts and copious amounts of eggnog. I hope so! It could also mean falling back into old patterns, regressing to your younger, less evolved self and feeling...
