by Jean Franzblau | May 25, 2019 | Checking In, Cuddle Workshops, History, Video
I was amazed. A few weeks ago it occurred to me to contact Zoe, the landlord who provides the space for Cuddle Sanctuary events. I’d been halfheartedly looking for a new location with safer parking, less traffic noise and more space. (Safer parking was a big factor.)...
by Jean Franzblau | Mar 16, 2019 | Checking In, Consent, Cuddle Workshops, How To
Last month I attended a cuddle event as a guest. The facilitator – Gabriella – created a deeply meditative vibe with quiet music and this guideline: “You’re welcome to make yummy sounds of enjoyment.” [We laughed.] “You can talk to make physical...
by Fei Wyatt | Feb 7, 2019 | Cuddle Workshops, Etiquette, How To
The very first cuddle I attended, I played it safe. I defaulted to my go-to strategy for connection: be friendly, and stay helpful! Instead of making requests for what I wanted, I deferred to others and let them choose. “What would you like to do?” I asked everyone...
by Jean Franzblau | Dec 8, 2018 | Checking In, Consent, Cuddle Workshops, Cuddling, The Faces of Cuddle Sanctuary
I received an email this week from a former Cuddle Sanctuary attendee who kindly gave me permission to share it. I’ve changed his name and the names of every other person I mention below… Jean, hi. Hope you are well. Do you find when people start...
by Jean Franzblau | Sep 28, 2018 | Cuddle Workshops, How To
Are you a woman who’s curious about cuddle events but haven’t yet felt ready to try? Would you like to invite a female friend to a cuddle event and help her feel safe? Welcome to the Women’s Guide for Attending Cuddle Events! Though this guide was inspired by the need...
by Jean Franzblau | Sep 22, 2018 | Consent, Cuddle Workshops
Last week, I blogged about the fears women face when they consider attending a cuddle event. Those fears are enough to keep many women away. To me, that’s a tragedy because what happens at Cuddle Sanctuary is healing and helpful – especially for women. Below are...
