by Fei Wyatt | Jan 13, 2019 | Cuddling, How To
Up until a few years ago, I wasn’t completely aware that I had a body. Of course, I knew what a body was and that I had one, but my experience of it was more of being a brain with limbs. Almost all of my day-to-day attention was spent “neck up” in my...
by Jean Franzblau | Jan 5, 2019 | Cuddling
A few months ago, someone posted on my Facebook page an announcement of a holiday I’d never heard of – National Cuddle Up Day. Cute! I decided to learn more about it because it seems like something Cuddle Sanctuary could embrace (hyuk hyuk). I found an upbeat...
by Jean Franzblau | Dec 8, 2018 | Checking In, Consent, Cuddle Workshops, Cuddling, The Faces of Cuddle Sanctuary
I received an email this week from a former Cuddle Sanctuary attendee who kindly gave me permission to share it. I’ve changed his name and the names of every other person I mention below… Jean, hi. Hope you are well. Do you find when people start...
by Fei Wyatt | Nov 30, 2018 | Cuddling, Professional Cuddling
When I was just beginning my career as a professional cuddler, I spent a lot of time imagining what the job would look like. Here’s what I saw in my mind’s eye: I would hold people close. We would have deep, meaningful conversations. They would open up to me, and I...
by Fei Wyatt | Nov 15, 2018 | Cuddling, How To, Professional Cuddling
Do you get lonely? I do. It’s my least favorite emotion to experience. Wait a minute, you say. How do you get lonely, Fei? You’re married, and you cuddle people all day long! You’re right. In general, I do have a lot of connection in my life. More than most, perhaps....
by Fei Wyatt | Nov 1, 2018 | Consent, Cuddling, Etiquette, How To
I really like getting what I want. I especially like getting what I want when I want it. Well, this makes hearing “No” really challenging at times. In fact, I’ve often gone out of my way to avoid those difficult feelings of rejection by not asking for what I want in...
