My Folks, The Vaccine, and Levia Love
I feel a lot of responsibility. Through the course of Covid, the mainstream world changed its understanding of the importance of human contact. This may mean a surge of interest in the services of professional cuddlers and a stream of newcomers at cuddle events. With...
Survey Results: Covid Safety At Cuddle Events
I sent out an anonymous survey exploring the possibility of offering cuddle events in July. More than 80 people who care about cuddling responded. Did it reveal a sure-fire approach that I'm ready to implement? No, but I didn't expect that. It did give me valuable...
Do you remember how to play?
Already today, I've emailed a legal document, took my supplements, reached out to a colleague, and set up an appointment. There will be more of the same tomorrow and the next day and the next. So. Much. Adulting. I find that being a grown up in this complex world...
The Day the Earth Stood Still
Old Movies My Dad used to tape old movies on the VCR and play his favorites over and over. A 1951 film, The Day the Earth Stood Still, was part of the pantheon. The film was about an advanced being coming to earth with a warning that human activities - in particular...
Need Help Finding a Cuddle Buddy Online?
I'm so happy to introduce you to Erin Tillman - Cuddle Sanctuary's Talent Spotlight for March 2021! I think Erin may be a bridge to a cuddle solution that you (or someone you know) may be seeking. Let me explain. People contact me pretty regularly looking for help...
How Do I Find a Cuddle Buddy Now?
A man contacted Cuddle Sanctuary to ask me for advice. "How do I find a Covid-safe cuddle buddy?" Good question. If you share this query, I'd like to lay out a plan for you. The first step - given that we're still in a pandemic - is to safely find people also seeking...
Deep Sleep (video)
I'm very lucky; I can fall asleep easily. In the past year or so my luck increased. Now I have vivid dreams that I remember. Whether you you slip into slumber easily or insomnia is one of your life challenges, I hope you'll enjoy this sleep treat. Sink into peaceful...
My Confessions About Racism
In his book, How to Be An Antiracist, Ibram Kendi says, “The heartbeat of antiracism is confession.” As a black man he wasn’t wagging his finger at the white reader with judgment. Instead, he acknowledged with embarrassment that he expressed racist ideas as a younger...
May I Hold Your Hand? (video)
Is it possible? I want to give you the feeling that we're right next to each other holding hands. With soft whispers and images of kind caresses, maybe we can make that happen. In these strange time of human distancing, sometimes it takes a leap of imagination for us...
“Cuddle Queen Jean” YouTube Channel Premieres (videos)
Welcome to Cuddle Queen Jean! Cuddle Queen Jean is your place on YouTube for relaxation, tenderness and self care. What you’ll find in each episode is an experience that I’ve crafted just for you. If you’d like, set aside some quality time so you can enjoy it to the...